Trust 0%
During our conversation I explained her my Apple Theory, my simple way of personal balance, a modified, accommodated version of the great Four Burners Theory. I used some small plate and toothpicks to explain the relations between the four life values, adding, shrinking, taking out of equation few of them. She was looking at this shuffling like kid at the candy store front window. I believe she like it. Indeed, few months later she admitted, that she was grabbed by this theory, and that moment was a starting point for her to get interest in me. She talked much, but at the time of explaining the theory, she was quiet. I summarized the meeting by removing the few friends she has and the job she didn’t like to leave just two burners, herself and me, commenting it by the words “You don’t have so many friends here, so we take them out, somehow you don’t like the job, so as you can see it gonna be only you and me here”. She was laughing.
After the sushi, she proposed a visit to a Starbucks at beautiful location at the sea. She used to go by herself. We ordered some coffee in the porcelain cups and started to talks how we fit. We looked at some serious horoscopes, just to trying find connections.
Somehow the horoscope was not favorable to us. Not much connected us. Not much to grab on. Anyway it’s just a stupid horoscope, isn’t it? Once again, lot of laugh, lot of compassion. Just to summarize, “great relation, sex and communication 100%, trust 0%, sic!”
Few months later, it proves, the trust issue is there as an demon surrounding the relationship. We went home early that day, but talked once again on the phone at the evening.
Cancer and Sagittarius – Compatibility in Sex, Love and Life
Right after I finished my makeup class, went home to prepare myself for the lunch with Mr Grey. Put my makeup on and wore a classy elegant dress, to give a nice impression on our first meeting, Our first date.
Intentionally, I arrived a bit late than the agreed time, although the restaurant was just next to my building. As I entered the restaurant, I was searching for him and then there I found him sitting with his ipad on.
I was a bit shy to approached him. Walking closer to his table, He stood up and then we shook hands, and had a french kiss. Quite, nervous but showed him with confidence.
While waiting for our order, He started asking some personal questions.
And so, I told him about my story, being married, having a daughter and How did I get into Sin City, after telling him I was in former country for 8 years.
I started to explained, I was separated with the father of my child for 4 years and I felt in love with an Oak Man who’s base in another city, but living in Sin City. The set up of relationship was just visiting me almost every weekend and it lasted for 10 months, until he convinced me to move with him in Sin City.
With my stability in my former country, having a nice position at work, who’s getting a decent salary, having a car and own accommodation somehow I was hesitating to give up all this just to be with him. My future and my daughter is at stake! I have a lot of what IF’s. What if I will not get a job? What If I will not get the same salary, What if the relation will not work out? With all of these what IF’s, I hold on to what he promised, that, we will build our family together in Sin City and we will bring my daughter with us. I somehow was convinced by the fact that I really wanted my daughter to stay near me. And so, I moved to him taking risks for everything and willing to start from the scratch again. Unfortunately, I was being dumped after. I just went home to visit my daughter and when I came back, He was already dating someone else. I was devastated and broken.
And so after telling him my story, He started talking about the Apple Theory.
I found myself having an interest of that theory and thought of Mr Grey as a great guy. I was impressed with the way he explained it to me, and from there he got me!
I started to be open and connected with him without setting a boundaries of any topic to discuss. I love how the discussion went on, and I felt so comfortable. I could open myself without any hesitation as he was open mind and I am connected to him from that moment.